We are all individuals but we all live in a society. We learn from others and we also share a lot of things, directly or indirectly, with many others. So why is it necessary to focus on sharing. There are a few reasons:
- Removing Stress : There are many reasons in life that can give us trouble. If we learn to exchange thoughts,w e may realize that the issues that made us worry were not really big. That feeling will help us become calm and happy. Sometime, others can offer a totally new perspective on our problems and that can be very helpful.
- Finding new solutions : Just by telling others our problems and worries we put some responsibility on other’s shoulders. Now the people who listened to you carefully will be tempted to help you. Since helping someone makes one feel happy, many people do try to contribute genuinely. For example, if a student feels that solving probability questions for NDA exam is a challenge, he can share his case with others. Some of his friend might have some very good notes or links to extremely good videos of those explanations or a reference of a good teacher. That could solve the problem easily but we have to learn to share.
- Chance possibility : Sometimes the best resource that we need could have been close by. By letting others know what you need, you increase the chances of getting that. There is a saying in Hindi ‘ जिस रौशनी को ढूँढा गली गली , वो मेरे एकदम निकट मिली ‘ Communication must be easy without any hesitation. Feel free to share feelings, thoughts with other people and give lady luck a chance to shine on you. READ PREVIOUS BLOG HERE